Gaslighting

What is Gaslighting? The term originates with an old film, as gaslights, as a source of light, produced dark forms and spooky shadows. When people practice 'gaslighting', they become a catalyst for the mental illness of others. They are usually psychopaths and narcissists who have no conscience, they resent criticism and refuse accountability, and turn to mind bending for their personal gains and entertainments. 

How do they perform this extraordinary function? They enjoy power, influence, money, etc., which they develop through manipulation, control and false hoods. They introduce a new form of warped reality - theirs! Yours no longer has any validity according to them! They do not respond to reason, logic or kindness. They will tell you that you are mad, which you will be in your attempt to relate to them! 

Hyper-vigilance, stress disorders, depression, anxiety, exhaustion, confusion, sleeplessness, nightmares, panic attacks, loss of concentration, and loss of supportive relationships are just some of the consequences of the gaslit relationship. Gaslighters have no interest in a relationship as they are not present for that purpose. Theirs is a false self! They are desperate people, who feel terrified of powerlessness, so they work to create power that they take from you to use for their own ends. They will take other people's money, because they will do anything to get it because it makes them feel superior and hides their inferiority. These are sad personalities, and damaged mentalities. And their charm belies how dangerous they are. In order to counteract this power dynamic, hold on to your own sense of self, and do not give up on your version of reality. You are the resistance! Remain defiant until you remove yourself from the gaslighter. What we try so hard to hide, others see all the more easily. 

By Wendy Stokes. https://Wendystokes.co.uk