While listening to Joan Armatrading singing 'Love and Affection' some of her lyrics inspired me to put pen to paper.
I am not in love but I'm open to persuasion... What a beautiful and honest sentiment by Joan Armatrading!
Being open to persuasion while not feeling in love can lead to some fun and unexpected adventures.
Love is so often a complex and multifaceted emotion. Sometimes, it creeps up on you when you least expect it, often when you're busy doing something else, like nurturing friendships or pursuing your passions. And sometimes, it takes a little nudge, an invitation to explore deeper feelings, or perhaps an unexpected moment that catches you off guard.
Being open to persuasion means you're receptive to new ideas and experiences. Maybe it’s a friend encouraging you to go on a date, or a chance encounter with someone who shares your interests. It can also be about exploring your feelings in a safe and comfortable way, where you can allow yourself to feel without the pressure of expectations.
If you’re in a place where you’re not sure about love but are open to it, consider what that may look like for you. It could involve trying new activities, meeting new people, or even engaging in heartfelt conversations with those around you. Sometimes, the act of being vulnerable and sharing your thoughts can create a deeper connection that might surprise you.
Remember, it's perfectly okay to take your time. There's no rush to fall in love or to define your feelings. Embrace the journey and enjoy the little moments that come your way. After all, the most beautiful relationships often start from a place of friendship, shared interests and experiences. Who knows? You may find that love is just around the corner, waiting for you to take that step into the adventure of a lifetime! Trust the process, and let your heart guide you.
Now if I can feel the sun in my eyes
And the rain on my face
Why can't I feel love, really love, really love...
Another beautiful and honest sentiment by Joan Armatrading!
The imagery of feeling the sun and the rain is so vivid, it really captures the essence of experiencing life in its fullness. Just as the sun can warm us and the rain can refresh us, love has the potential to bring joy and connection. Yet, it can also be elusive or complicated.
Sometimes, despite being surrounded by beauty and warmth, we might struggle to feel that genuine, heartfelt connection with others. It could be due to past experiences, fears, or simply the challenges of opening ourselves up to vulnerability. Love, in its truest form, requires us to let our guards down and allow ourselves to be seen, flaws and all.
It’s important to remember that love can take many shapes and forms. It might not always look like the grand gestures we see in romantic films or hear about in love songs. Sometimes, it’s found in the little moments, like a shared laugh, a comforting hug, or a quiet understanding between friends.
If you’re feeling a disconnect, it might be worth exploring what love means to you personally. Are there barriers you’re facing? Are there past experiences that make it hard to feel love? Reflecting on these questions can be a helpful step toward opening your heart to the possibilities that love can bring.
And don’t forget, love is a journey. It’s perfectly okay to take your time and to seek connections that feel genuine and fulfilling. Surrounding yourself with people who make you feel good, exploring new interests, and being kind to yourself can all help pave the way for love to flourish in your life. It's worth reminding yourself, you’re not alone in feeling this way, and there’s always hope for deeper connections in the future.
Mandy Westaway
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